OK Anine, it’s been six days. Are you going to keep thinking about that guy who called you corazón and then said he didn’t want to date anyone? No, you’re going to build yourself a budget because he wants to “get his life together” and you already have!
In Sex and the City, Carrie Bradshaw was notorious for relying on the men in her life for money and housing, to the point that it made me a bit sick to watch. She goes to Big when she needs money and she lets her ex-fiancé Aidan buy her apartment (which, unsurprisingly, doesn’t turn out well). When things backfire and she’s nearly homeless, she has no backup funds to bail herself out.
Ever since I was told at age 15 that to be a writer in any capacity I’d have to “get myself a rich boyfriend,” I’ve loathed the idea of relying on a man (or anyone) for anything. It also helped that I listened to Deap Vally’s song “Gonna Make My Own Money” hundreds of times!
Like investing, in dating past performance is not indicative of future returns. For now, I’ve given up on a future reduction in rent were I to move in with someone. (As Whoopi Goldberg said, “I don’t want somebody in my house!”) Instead, I’ve made a life for myself on my own terms.
This also means that I’m a one-income-stream household, and that me, myself and I have to cover the entire rent payment, utilities and other monthly expenses. I live in a one-bedroom apartment in Chicago, and I pay for electricity and internet, but I don’t have to pay for water or gas/heat. I’ve cut back on my monthly subscriptions, so those only cost about $13. My monthly fixed expenses are $1,188. So, what do I do with the rest of my monthly income to ensure my financial stability?
Remember when I read “Broke Millennial” and Erin Lowry introduced me to the percentage budget? It’s time for that budget to shine. First things first: Let’s spreadsheet it!
The percentage budget outlined in “Broke Millennial” designates 50% of monthly income for fixed expenses, 20% for savings or financial goals and 30% for wants or flexible spending. The first thing I wanted to see was the true percentage of my monthly fixed expenses. I was pleasantly surprised to see that it was under 50%. This gives me even more flexibility in this budget, especially if some months I want to save more than 20% of my income, or I need to spend a little more on dental costs—or fancy cheese!
I tried out this budget for the month of February this year and it worked out well for me, even when it came to paying off my credit card! I haven’t set a specific food budget yet, but for now I’m including it in my 30% for flexible spending and will determine it in future months. I’ll also be looking into some other budgeting methods, including trying out a budgeting app or two, so stay tuned for more of the Carrie Finances series!
Have you tried a budgeting method? Did it work, or did you have to create your own?
